As a coach who has worked with numerous professionals over the years, I’ve noticed a recurring theme—many high achievers struggle with a hidden challenge: Imposter Syndrome. It’s that uncomfortable feeling of self-doubt, the belief that your successes aren’t truly deserved, and the fear of being “found out” as a fraud. This silent struggle can significantly impact your professional journey, holding you back from embracing the success you’ve worked so hard to achieve.
Let’s explore what Imposter Syndrome is, how to recognise it, and what you can do to move past it.
What is Imposter Syndrome?
Imposter Syndrome is the persistent feeling that you’re not truly competent, even when you have ample evidence of your achievements. Many high performers downplay their accomplishments, attributing them to external factors like luck, timing, or the support of others, rather than recognising their skills and hard work.
If you’ve ever felt like you don’t belong in your role, or that your success is just a stroke of luck waiting to be undone, you’re not alone. Here are a few common signs that you might be dealing with Imposter Syndrome:
You struggle to internalise your successes and often feel undeserving.
You downplay your achievements, attributing them to chance rather than your abilities.
You set incredibly high standards and feel like a failure if they aren’t met perfectly.
You hesitate to seek help, fearing it will expose your perceived shortcomings.
Different Faces of Imposter Syndrome
Imposter Syndrome takes on various forms, depending on the individual. Here are five types that often come up in my coaching sessions:
The Perfectionist: Someone who sets unattainably high standards, feeling like they’ve failed if they don’t achieve perfection.
The Superhero: They overwork and overextend themselves to prove their worth, yet still feel inadequate.
The Expert: This type believes they must know everything before they begin, fearing exposure if they don’t have all the answers.
The Natural Genius: They expect immediate mastery and feel disheartened if they face challenges.
The Soloist: They believe asking for help is a sign of weakness, striving to do everything on their own.
Identifying Thought Patterns and Triggers
Recognising the thought patterns and triggers that feed Imposter Syndrome is crucial in overcoming it. Here are some common mental habits that might be reinforcing self-doubt:
All-or-Nothing Thinking: Viewing your efforts as a complete success or total failure.
Example: “If this presentation isn’t flawless, I’ve failed completely.”
Overgeneralisation: Allowing one negative event to cast a shadow over your overall competence.
Example: “I didn’t handle that question well, so I must not be good at my job.”
Discounting the Positive: Dismissing positive feedback or successes as insignificant.
Example: “That project went well, but it was just luck.”
Mind Reading: Assuming that others are judging your performance negatively without evidence.
Example: “They probably think I’m not capable.”
Catastrophising: Expecting the worst possible outcome and exaggerating potential failures.
Example: “If I make a mistake, it will ruin my reputation.”
Spotting Your Triggers
High achievers often face unique triggers that can amplify feelings of self-doubt. Here are some situations to be aware of:
Transitioning into New Roles: Stepping into a new position or taking on greater responsibility can heighten anxiety.
Receiving Feedback: Even constructive criticism can feel like confirmation of your perceived shortcomings.
High-Pressure Environments: Important presentations, deadlines, or reviews can trigger intense self-doubt.
Comparing Yourself to Others: Measuring your success against others can feed feelings of inadequacy.
Perfectionist Work Cultures: Being in environments that emphasise flawlessness can make you doubt your capabilities.
Reflecting on Past Mistakes: Negative past experiences can reinforce fears and self-doubt.
How Awareness Can Lead to Positive Change
One of the most effective steps toward overcoming Imposter Syndrome is raising your awareness of its triggers and patterns. Noticing when and how these feelings arise is crucial to challenging and reframing them.
A practical way to start is by keeping a Trigger Log—jotting down instances when self-doubt appears, the circumstances that prompted it, and your emotional reaction. Over time, you’ll begin to see patterns and start recognising your automatic thoughts. This awareness is a powerful first step towards changing the way you perceive your achievements.
Taking small, consistent steps to celebrate your successes—no matter how small—can gradually shift your mindset from doubt to confidence. Acknowledge the effort you put in, and give yourself credit for your accomplishments.
Our New Coaching Program: Overcoming Imposter Syndrome - Career Confidence
If you’re a high achiever struggling with Imposter Syndrome, know that you’re not alone—and help is available. I’m excited to share that we are about to launch our Overcoming Imposter Syndrome - Career Confidence Coaching Program, designed specifically for professionals who want to move beyond self-doubt and embrace their true capabilities.
Here’s How Our Program Can Help:
Personalised Coaching: Each session is tailored to your challenges, offering strategies that address the root causes of Imposter Syndrome.
Cognitive Reframing: Learn tools to shift negative thinking into balanced, empowering thoughts.
Strengths-Based Approach: We’ll work together to identify and celebrate your core strengths, allowing you to focus on what you do best.
Goal Setting and Accountability: Develop achievable, confidence-boosting goals, with the support and accountability needed to stay on track.
A Safe Space to Explore: The program provides a confidential environment where you can openly explore your doubts and fears, working towards sustainable change.
This coaching program is about more than just managing Imposter Syndrome; it’s about creating long-lasting confidence and celebrating your unique journey. Email me at liina@consutlforgrowth.com to learn more about the program.
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